There has to be more to it than that. I have had the same plugs in my Peewee since first start 2010. No electrode erosion of any kind. They still work very well. My theory is that the gap is huge and the voltage has to build up to a very high voltage to jump the gap damaging the electrode. Another theory is, if an automotive coil (old school) is being used it may be delivering way more energy (Joules) than the little CDI coil which is all volts and no amps. Or theory number 3, Both!
Something to keep in mind with a points-type or simple transistor ignition is that energy is being built in the coil during dwell - that's the time the points are closed or the transistor is ON. In a multi-cylinder engine the dwell is necessarily limited to tens of crankshaft degrees since the coil has to service other plugs. The resistance in series with the coil is often minimized in order to get enough current through the coil to build enough energy in the time allotted for each plug.
In a single or dual cylinder engine, the dwell is huge. The points spend most of their time closed, and if an automotive coil with insufficient series resistance is being used, the energy built is much more than needed in a model engine. When the points open, and all this energy is dumped into a single cylinder model engine plug, you're going to greatly shorten the life of the plug. If you also run a really wide plug gap, that excess energy will show up as some terrifically high voltages during compression that can result in a rash of arc-over problems that a typical plug isn't designed to handle. (i.e. it doesn't have a 3 inch long insulator).
The solution for a single cylinder model engine isn't to design a beefier plug or to use exotic metal electrodes. The solution is use a coil designed for model engines, or reduce the coil voltage, or add resistance in series with the coil, or to use a capacitive discharge ignition that works independent of dwell.
When testing a model engine ignition by firing a plug in open air you're looking for a thin blue spark - not a fat yellow-red flame. A flame is telling you that something is burning. - Terry